I KNOW I'm not the only person that does this....

Have you ever needed a boost to your ego after a break up??  So you call an ex-girlfriend (that you're actually still civil with) ??

I wasn't looking for a booty-call, since my ex (Jesse) lives a few hundred miles away now; just some good convo.

Anyway..... we were talking about what direction our lives have taken since we've last spoke (almost a year ago).... and it turns out she suffered a devastating break up, a while back... where here fiancé cheated on her. She spoke about how she still has Trust & Commitment issues, to this day.

KARMA'S A REAL BITCH!!!

I didn't say that to her..... but has she totally forgot the reason for all of our troubles? (BTW- we broke up 7 years ago) She was the one that decided to cheat on me!!  AND get pregnant by the other guy!!  When I talk about it, I find it hard to believe that we're still on speaking terms.... I must have really loved her, huh?? 

Now, she did have an abortion, back then... and she apologized profusely....and we must have been at each others throats for a couple of years afterwards....but all of those emotions were put to rest years ago. Time really does heal all wounds. As fu@#ed up as things were back then, if I was to see her today, I'm sure she'd be greeted with big smile & hug...